10 Grooming Habits That Make You Instantly More Attractive

Listen to men online, and you’d believe that unless you're born an Adonis, you’re doomed to be unattractive. That’s just not true. Sure, some guys have razor-sharp cheekbones and a jawline you could cut glass on. But most of us are dealt a mixed bag.

The question isn’t the cards you’re dealt – it’s how you play them.

Looking better as a man isn’t about chasing perfection. It’s about control: clean lines, sharp grooming, and a presence that says, I’ve got this. Confidence doesn’t come from symmetry or a six-pack — it comes from knowing you’ve put yourself together on purpose.

Want to look hotter, more masculine, and way more put-together — without becoming a high-maintenance male influencer? Start here.

How to Look Good as a Man

Cut Down on Smoking and Drinking

Nothing ages you faster than smoking and drinking. A few beers are fine when you’re 21. But if you’re still glugging back bottle after bottle – or chain smoking through a 20-pack – when you’re over 25, you’re asking for trouble.

Why?

Well, drinking constantly dehydrates your skin. This dryness affects its ability to heal. Alcohol is also a poison; it prevents every part of your body from working at peak efficiency. And, lastly, it takes a sledgehammer to your sleep. When you pass out after a session, you’re not sleeping – it’s quite literally anaesthetising your brain.

Just a few short days off the sauce can transform your appearance.

Then there’s smoking. It’s not just the cancer risk – smoking contains numerous harmful chemicals that damage collagen and elastin in your skin, leading to more wrinkles and sagging. Not good!

Wash Your Face Morning and Night

Let’s be honest: you can get 80% of the benefits from just 20% of the activities. Focusing on the basics, like washing your face morning and evening, will get you most of the way there.

Your face accumulates dirt, grime, and sweat over the course of the day. Whether you’ve had your face buried in your pillow or it’s 9 PM, it’s sensible to give your face a cleanse. Use a gentle face wash that won’t strip away all the essential oils.

You’ll prevent ageing, acne, and give your pores a chance to breathe.

Follow a Skincare Routine

If you're serious about looking better as a man, it’s time to stop winging it with soap and water. A proper skincare routine doesn’t need to be complicated, but it does need to be consistent.

Here’s the minimalist, no-nonsense routine every man should follow:

• Cleanser (AM + PM): Wash away dirt, sweat, and excess oil.
• Moisturiser (AM + PM): Keeps skin hydrated, smooth, and balanced.
• SPF (AM): Protects against sun damage — the biggest ageing factor.
• (Optional) Exfoliator (2–3x/week): Removes dead skin cells for a clearer, more even complexion.

Still think skincare is just for women? Think again. Clear, healthy skin is a subtle cue of vitality and health. It activates the deep evolutionary drive that tells us: this is someone to take seriously.

Want a simple, science-backed routine built for guys? Here’s the one we recommend.

Get Your Teeth Cleaned

Women like the brooding, troubled type, right? Well, actually — yes. One study found that women rated “proud and powerful” or even “moody and ashamed” men as more sexually attractive than those who looked happy.

This isn’t about boyfriend material — it’s raw, carnal attraction.

But don’t think that gives you a pass on dental hygiene. Nothing kills the vibe faster than bad breath and yellow teeth. After all, they’ve got to kiss you.

Good oral hygiene means more than just brushing. You should be:

• Brushing twice a day
• Flossing daily
• Using interdental brushes (yes, those tiny things actually matter)
• Visiting the dentist regularly
• Considering whitening if your teeth are badly discoloured

A smile might soften your mysterious stranger vibe, but grimy teeth will dash all your hopes on the rocks.

Grow a Beard

The beard is makeup for men.

It can hide a weak jawline, balance your features, and give you a strong, masculine appearance. Plenty of men go from being invisible to an absolute magnet after growing a beard.

Beards signal status, dominance, and power. Society might frown on those traits — but they still get results.

So, how long should your beard be? That depends on your face shape.

Heavy stubble (aka designer stubble) is consistently rated the most attractive by women. It’s also the easiest to grow and maintain. That said, women who love longer beards really love them. You might have fewer options, but you’ll make a stronger impression with the ones you get.

Of course, you’ll need to maintain your beard. Always use a quality beard oil as part of your grooming routine. We also recommend our specialist Beard Wash & Restore— a shampoo and conditioner that cleans without stripping essential oils.

Read More: Beard Psychology: What Your Beard Says About You

Trim Your Brows

Ever seen a guy with wild eyebrows? Maybe he’s staring back at you in the mirror.

Too often, we see men who think that plucking and trimming their brows is “feminine.” Sure, bro. That’s why you’re rocking a monobrow so thick it looks like a caterpillar wriggling across your forehead.

Trimming your brow is such a simple hack.

Unlike women, we’re not trying to reshape or do anything fancy. It’s about removing the stray hairs between your eyebrows and at the edges. You can then use a pair of scissors to trim back those extra-long hairs.

Get yourself a pair of Beard Sorcery Trimming Scissors to get those brows under control.

Try a New Haircut

The haircut maketh the man.

Most men pick a hairstyle sometime between the ages of 16 and 25 — and stick with it for life. Usually, it reflects the trends of their youth and whatever their hair happened to do naturally.

Unlike women, men aren’t expected to switch up their hair constantly. And while some guides push trendy cuts — like the short pompadour or faded French crop — we don’t.

What you need is a clean, sharp haircut that suits your face, style, and personality. That might mean shoulder-length waves for one guy, or a tight, cropped fade for another. There’s no universal right answer — just what works best for you.

The one rule? Get it cut regularly. Aim for every 4–6 weeks. This keeps your shape crisp and reduces the effort you need to style it each day.

Hit the Gym

Look: hitting the gym is perhaps the most consequential thing you’ll ever do (aside from growing your first beard). It’ll transform your life, your personality, even the way you walk.

That’s not some tired cliché – it’s straight facts.

Putting muscle on your frame naturally makes you more confident. Those baggy T-shirts suddenly get filled out by biceps, pecs, and a ripped back.

Women might claim that they aren’t attracted to excessive muscle. But they are attracted to confidence and dominance. That’s what hitting the gym does to you – it gives you both in spades. If only because it spikes your testosterone levels.

The gym isn’t the only answer. Other options include:

• Sandbag Lifting – Builds raw, functional strength and a rugged physique with just a heavy bag and grit.
• Rowing – Sculpts your back, arms, and core while torching fat with low-impact intensity.
• Callisthenics – Uses your bodyweight to build lean muscle, balance, and impressive control.
• Swimming – Creates broad shoulders and a V-shaped torso while boosting skin and lung health.
• Boxing or Kickboxing – Shreds fat, sharpens reflexes, and teaches you to move with purpose and power.

Sleep More

If sleep were a drug, everyone would take it.

Sleep is when your body rests and repairs. While you shut down for the night, your system is hard at work: flushing out toxins, healing damage, reducing inflammation, processing memories — and yes, improving your appearance.

Most men walking around with eye bags, a dull complexion, and greyed-out sclera are simply chronically sleep-deprived.

Prioritising 7–9 hours a night (ideally at the upper end) will do wonders for your appearance, confidence, and mood. There’s virtually nothing that sleep doesn’t improve. And yes — it’ll help you build muscle much faster.

Consider this your permission to doze.

Develop a Personal Style

The last grooming tip is both the most — and least — important. If you’ve got terrible skin, bad teeth, an outdated haircut, and eyebrows like a wire brush, throwing on a nice shirt and sharp chinos won’t do much.

That said, once you’ve nailed the basics, the right clothes can take you up a level.

Choosing your style isn’t easy. As with haircuts, many guides push trendy looks that don’t flatter most men.

Forget the fads. Stick to the fundamentals — sharp suits, tailored shirts, solid jeans and trousers. Then, as your confidence grows, feel free to branch out. Maybe you’re the sleek entrepreneur. Maybe it’s rugged flannel and worn-in denim. Maybe it’s sun-bleached hair, loose tees, and board shorts.

What matters is that it works for you.

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